“Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your
one wild and precious life?”
– Mary Oliver
How I wish I believed in myself!
I am worthy of every bit of my dreams and then some.
I am envious of confident people who just don’t care what anyone else thinks.
But… caring what other people think guides your decisions – if deciding is even what you’re doing.
Whatever someone suggests seems to be what you do.
I do all the things I should be doing.
I am crippled at the idea of not meeting expectations.
I’m busy building my resume because I’m supposed to do that, right? If I didn’t, I’d be a disappointment.
It never ends. Hours and hours to excel and look perfect from the outside.
You’ve convinced people that you ARE perfect.
(But you’re not!)
When you try to be just a member of the group, you’re selected as the leader – again.
All you want is to make friends – and be part of the group.
I want to feel like I have a place to belong.
The pace of trying to maintain
perfection is wearing.
Inside you are weeping with a sad and heavy heart.
The next step could be collapsing.
Disappointing everyone.
Who do I turn to? I’m so lonely.
Take a deep breath, sister, I hear you.
Knocking the walls down which you’ve built around you is challenging.
Quieting the noise around you so you can feel safe to hear your own heart and soul is really hard.
Right now, the whispers of your spirit telling you who you are and what you want to do are almost inaudible.
If you don’t adjust the volume, everything will stay the same – and possibly worsen.
You deserve better. Yes, you.
You deserve to release the anxiety of pleasing others. You deserve to live your life for yourself. You deserve to believe that you’re already enough just as you are. Because you are.
You want things to be different. I know you do, and it seems impossible. It’s not. The moment is now to live for you.
I can help you raise the volume of your inner knowing and turn whispers into proud statements of clarity, of confidence in who you are and what you’re about.
In our work together, we’ll build your unshakeable confidence.
This means you’ll start owning your unique and
beautiful radiance, my friend.
This means you’ll live a life that makes
you feel alive!
Let me help you shine.
Hi, I’m Kendra.
I finally realized I was not participating in my life; I was adapting to the needs of the environment. I was changing myself so I could be what I was supposed to be. I was watching my life go by like I was a performer in someone else’s production. I was a vehicle for the list of shoulds. While I looked gorgeous and happy, I wasn’t.
Stepping off this track was hard. But I did it, and I’m living my best story because of it.
I’m on a mission to make every woman believe she is worthy of being WHO SHE IS, getting what she wants, and not apologizing – turning the quest for perfection to aligning with purpose, joy and a vibrant life!
I’ve been right where your feet are stuck, sister. You don’t have to stay put.
I am your ultimate cheerleader. I’m in your corner. In moments of uncertainty, I’ll be there to remind you, “Yes, you can!” until you believe in your magic as much as I do.
